INNER Stress Management
Introduction, here we answer some of the questions about INNER Stress Management.

Why INNER Stress Management?
The most damaging effects happen to the body and brain when we feel helpless or overwhelmed. By being proactive and
learning effective stress management skills we become more confident in dealing with stress. The more inner-self
understanding we have of our physical, emotional and mentally states, the less helpless and overwhelmed we will feel
when outer stressful events occur.

How do we learn INNER Stress Management?
After years of research, study, practice and teaching it has been found that stress can be effectively worked with in three
stages. Each of these stages has an associated STRESS Meditation practice (please see below).
About ISM- More About ISM
The 3 Stages ISM
The 3 Practices of ISM
1 - Releasing Daily Stress
Stopping & Dropping
2 - Restoring The Emotions
Opening & Smiling
3 - Reducing Future Stress
Inquiring to Understand
HOW TO- The A B C's of Meditation (mental development): Awareness, Breathing and Caring

The Basic’s of Meditation.
1.        Awareness of what is happening inside of us.
2.        
Breathing in and breathing out of the body.
3.        
Caring for what happening inside of us.

    Common Initial Meditation Experience
    1.        Physical Unpleasantness
    2.        Mental Unpleasantness
    3.        Insight Pleasantness


Meditative Developments *
Joy
1.        Let Go
2.        Touch Happiness
3.        Strengthen Happiness

Stress
1.        Stop & Drop
2.        Open & Soften
3.        Inquiry to Understand

Insight
1.        Inquire
2.        Acknowledge
3.        Understand

Management
1.        Consider the Information
2.        Open the Mind
3.        Manage it

Decision Making
1.        Decision Type & Facts
2.        Options & Risks
3.        Choose Calmly

Emotional Intelligence
1.        Recognize & Accept Your Emotions
2.        Rebalance Emotions and Motivate Your Self
3.        Recognize and Understand the Emotions of Others

Effect Communications
1.        Pause & Suspend
2.        Open to See & Listen
3.        Caringly Consider & Respond

* These are optional mental development practices that may be added to the basic ABC’s of meditation, in time they naturally
become present without effort in our day to day life.